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on Jan 8, 2010

Lord help me...........I don't quite know how to put this but here it goes...........One month ago my brother murdered both of his daughters and his daughters mothers. Then he committed suicide. His daughters (Deja and Navejah were not even two years of age. My family and I will never know how he could have done something so evil...........The media reported that he was having financial problems, that he was way behind in child support and so on.  My Lord...........please guide my feelings..............Whoever is out there, I need your help. I am a single Dad raising my 12 year old son. I am unemployed and don't receive any help from his mother. This morning the sheriff showed up at my house with an eviction notice stating that me and my son be out immediately. Thank God my son is at school right now. I knew this day was coming and I'm guilty of procrastinating. Things have been so unbelievable for my family and I. I have inturn been irresponsible. Finding employment has been an even more difficult task after what my brother did. I am about $3000.00 in debt with my landlord and I need help in a hurry. I don't have a vehicle either. I might as well ask for help with that too. I live in Madison Wisconsin. If any of you out there can help us.........we would forever be grateful. Thank You.....Damian S.

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3. Efficient PI posted on Jan 9, 2010
 in response to loreelu...   

First of all, I believe happiness is a way of life and not a destination.

However, what was done is an evil act. I realize and respect you have been traumatized by this event, but minimizing this situation will not bring closure. I agree, your brother may have had an un-discovered mental illness and would attribute this act to that illness.

I do not intend to make waves in this post, rather, I intend to assit in the pursuit of closure. I truely feel for you and hope you can realize, although your brother did this, you are not pre-disposed to repeat this. You are who you strive to be. I would wager, based upon your post and confusion, you are a good person in search of yourself after this tragic event.

The staff of Efficient PI is dedicated to assisting those in need and offering advice as requested it's applicants for service.

Below, grams1 has given better information and such a long post of resources I could not compete. If you do find the information is useless, let me know and I'll find alternatives.

We, in this department hope to be contacted by grams1 to see what involvement the individual would be interested in with our service. The information offered is extensive and invaluable to our cause.

I wish you the best and hope you'll contact us privately if you need anything further.

Efficient PI, Support Staff

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2. grams1 posted on Jan 9, 2010

your first move should find a place to go if you have no family  close there is homeless shelters as i put a list below. you need to get help through DFS for food and medical and then get in to the low income houseing  list below and jobs search the net .your brother had his problems and Your brother was not evil and you nor anyone else will know what he suffered or felt. This being said try to forgive him and pray for him and his family. He may have suffered from some sort of mental illness that was not detected


Homeless Haven of Sauk County     (608)356-9930
P.O.Box 339 Baraboo, WI 53913
Baraboo Shelters
The Sparrow's Nest     608-362-8215
1816 Harrison Beloit, WI 53512
Beloit Shelters
Burlington Transitional Living Center     262-763-6226
482 S. Pine Street Burlington, WI 53105
Burlington Shelters
Twin Oaks Homeless Shelter     262-724-3662
W9665 US Hwy 14 Darien, WI 53114
Darien Shelters
Hope Gospel Mission     715-552-5566
8 South Farwell Street Eau Claire, WI 54701
Eau Claire Shelters
Ruth House     715-834-4000
2517 Moholt Drive Eau Claire, WI 54703
Eau Claire Shelters
House of Mercy Homeless Shelter     608-754-0045
320 Lincoln St Janesville, WI 53545
Janesville Shelters
Interfaith Hospitality Network of the Madison Area     608-294-7998
1121 University Avenue Madison, WI 53715
Madison Shelters
Joy House     414-344-2211
830 N 19th Street Milwaukee, WI 53233
Milwaukee Shelters
Milwaukee Rescue Mission     414-344-2211
830 North 19th Street Milwaukee, WI 53233
Milwaukee Shelters
The Guest House     414-345-3240
1216 North 13th Street Milwaukee, WI 53205
Milwaukee Shelters
all for him ministries inc     414 587-1773
p.o. box 12875 milwaukee , WI 53212
milwaukee Shelters
Eagles Nest Emergency Shelter     715-756-2581
W6733 Shawpokasic Street Neopit, WI 54150
Neopit Shelters
Halo     262-633-3235
2000 De Koven Avenue Racine, WI 53403
Racine Shelters
Passages     800-236-HEAL
P.O. Box 156 Richland Center, WI 53581
Richland Center Shelters
Salvation Army     1(715)845-6583
113 S. 2nd Avenue Wausau, WI 54401
Wausau Shelters
Naomi House     920-787-2247
126 E. Mt Morris Ave Wautoma, WI 54982
Wautoma Shelters

Low-Income Affordable Housing 

Compiled by Patricia E. Meloy, September 2002

Back to LRB Publications Page

Affordable Housing. Sustaining Wisconsin Project, Center on Wisconsin Strategy, 2001. (331.83/C33a) Describes Wisconsin's affordable housing problems from a variety of angles, including the roles of federal and state government and nonprofit organizations. www.sustainingwisconsin.org/materials/issue_papers/pdf/bp-housing-1.pdf [Link no longer active as of Sept. 25, 2009] 

Affordable Housing: A Crisis for Wisconsin Families. A WISKIDS Count Special Report - 2002. Wisconsin Council on Children and Families, Inc., 2002. (331.83/W751) www.wccf.org/pdf/wiskids2002housing.pdf 

"Affordable Housing: Is There a Serious Shortage?". Jane Tanner, Congressional Quarterly, Inc., CQ Researcher, February 9, 2001. (331.838/C761) Although homeownership has hit a record 67.7% in the U.S., many middle class families cannot find "decent, affordable shelter." 

Affordable Housing and Smart Growth: Making the Connection. Danielle Arigoni, Smart Growth Network and the National Neighborhood Coalition, 2001. (331.83/Sm2) www.neighborhoodcoalition.org/AH%20and%20SG.pdf [Link no longer active as of Sept. 25, 2009]

"The Evolution of Low-Income Housing Policy, 1949 to 1999". Charles J. Orlebeke, Fannie Mae Foundation, Housing Policy Debate, 2000, v.11, no.2. (331.83/Or5) Focuses on three devolution instruments in housing policy: the Low-Income Housing Tax Credit, housing vouchers, and housing block grants. http://www.mi.vt.edu/data/files/hpd%2011(2)/hpd%2011(2)_orlebeke.pdf

"Expanding the Dream of Homeownership". National Housing Conference, NHC Affordable Housing Policy Review, April 2001, v.1, no.1. (331.838/N21) http://www.nhc.org/pdf/pub_ahp_04_01.pdf

"The Gautreaux Legacy: What Might Mixed-Income and Dispersal Strategies Mean for the Poorest Public Housing Tenants?". Susan J. Popkin, et al., Fannie Mae Foundation, Housing Policy Debate, 2000, v.11, no.4. (331.839/P81) Outcomes of scattered-site policies stemming from Gautreaux v. Chicago Housing Authority (1969). http://www.knowledgeplex.org/showdoc.html?id=1192

"Housing America's Working Families: A Further Exploration". Joseph M. Harkness, et al., Center for Housing Policy, New Century Housing, March 2002, v.3, no.1. (331.83/H22) New information about the kinds of working families most likely to experience persistent housing needs. www.nhc.org/nhcimages/workingfam3final.pdf [Link no longer active as of Sept. 25, 2009]

"Housing Vouchers Should Be a Major Component of Future Housing Policy for the Lowest Income Families". Barbara Sard, U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, Office of Policy Development and Research, Cityscape, 2001, v.5, no.2. (331.839/Sa7) www.huduser.org/periodicals/cityscpe/vol5num2/sard.pdf 

Low Income Housing Profile. National Low Income Housing Coalition, 2001. (331.83/N211) http://www.nlihc.org/doc/profile.pdf

"The Low-Income Housing Tax Credit: An Analysis of the First Ten Years". Jean L. Cummings and Denise DiPasquale, Fannie Mae Foundation, Housing Policy Debate, 1999, v.10, no.2. (331.839/C91) Report analyzes the program based on study of 2,554 LIHTC projects. www.fanniemaefoundation.org/programs/hpd/pdf/hpd_1002_cummings.pdf [Link no longer active as of Sept. 25, 2009]

Making Housing Work for Working Families: Building Bridges Between the Labor Market and the Housing Market. Rebecca J. Swartz, et al., Hudson Institute, July 2001. (331.83/H86)

Meeting Our Nation's Housing Challenges. Report of the Bipartisan Millennial Housing Commission, May 30, 2002. (331.83/X12) Bipartisan commission directed by U.S. Congress to investigate affordable housing, how to increase private sector investment, and HUD programs. http://govinfo.library.unt.edu/mhc/MHCReport.pdf

Out of Reach 2001: America's Growing Wage-Rent Disparity. National Low Income Housing Coalition/LIHIS, 2001. www.nlihc.org/oor2001 

"Paycheck to Paycheck: Working Families and the Cost of Housing in America". Barbara J. Lipman, Center for Housing Policy, New Century Housing, June 2001, v.2, no.1. (331.83/L66) Describes the number and characteristics of families with critical housing needs in the nation's 60 largest housing markets and analyzes ability of janitors, teachers, police officers, licensed practical nurses, and retail sales persons to afford reasonably priced housing. www.nhc.org/nhcimages/paycheck.pdf [Link no longer active as of Sept. 25, 2009]

Pursuing the American Dream: Homeownership and the Role of Federal Housing Policy. Michael Collins, Prepared at request of the Millennial Housing Commission, January 2001. (331.838/X6) Overview of U.S. housing policies related to homeownership, including analysis of the barriers to homeownership and pressing federal policies that could better support homeownership. www.mhc.gov/papers/collins.pdf [Link no longer active as of Sept. 25, 2009]

"Recent Improvements to the Section 8 Tenant-Based Program". Jeffrey M. Lubell, U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, Office of Policy Development and Research, Cityscape, 2001, v.5, no.2. (331.837/L96) www.huduser.org/periodicals/cityscpe/vol5num2/lubell.pdf 

Rental Housing Assistance - The Worsening Crisis: A Report to Congress on Worst Case Housing Needs. U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, Office of Policy Development and Research, March 2000. (331.837/X8) HUD documents the crisis in housing affordability for 5.4 million very-low-income renters, particularly minority working families with children. Full report: www.huduser.org/publications/affhsg/worstcase00/worstcase00.pdf 
Executive summary: www.huduser.org/publications/affhsg/wc99.pdf 

Saving Affordable Housing: What Community Groups Can Do & What Government Should Do. John Atlas and Ellen Shoshkes, National Housing Institute, 1997. (331.83/N21) www.nhi.org/online/issues/sf90.html 

Section 8 Tenant-Based Housing Assistance: A Look Back After 30 Years. U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, Office of Policy Development and Research, March 2000. (331.837/X2) www.huduser.org/publications/pdf/look.pdf 

State Housing Programs. Wisconsin Legislative Fiscal Bureau, Informational Paper 81, January 2001. (331.839/W7) www.legis.wisconsin.gov/lfb/informationalpapers/2001/81.pdf 

The State of the Nation's Housing 2002. Joint Center for Housing Studies of Harvard University. (331.83/H26) www.jchs.harvard.edu/publications/markets/Son2002.pdf 

Wisconsin Housing and Economic Development Authority. Informational Paper 80, Wisconsin Legislative Fiscal Bureau, 2001. (331.839/W7a) www.legis.wisconsin.gov/lfb/informationalpapers/2001/80.pdf 

Related Web Sites

www.cbpp.org - Center on Budget and Policy Priorities "conducts research analysis on a range of government policies and programs, with an emphasis on those affecting low- and moderate-income people."

www.danter.com/taxcredit - Danter Company. Real estate research organization provides detailed historical track of the Low-Income Housing Tax Credit, which is searchable for specific Wisconsin data.

www.doa.state.wi.us/dhir - Division of Housing and Intergovernmental Relations, Wisconsin Department of Administration.

www.fanniemaefoundation.org/programs/hpd.shtml - Fannie Mae Foundation. Site for accessing current and past issues of Housing Policy Debate, the quarterly journal featuring expert articles; policy analysis and research; and current issues in housing, community development, and finance.

www.iceclt.org/clt/ - The Institute for Community Economics provides information about community and nonprofit housing efforts throughout the country.

www.nahro.org - The National Association of Housing and Redevelopment Officials represents housing and community development agencies, including public housing managers and administrators of Section 8 vouchers. Site offers information on the Low-Income Tax Credit (LIHTC) www.nahro.org/home/resource/credit.html and the HOME Investment Partnership Program www.nahro.org/home/origins.html 

www.nlihc.org - National Low Income Housing Coalition/LIHIS. Site includes weekly in-depth updates on federal housing programs and the "2002 Advocates' Guide to Housing and Community Development Policy" with glossary listing over 100 abbreviations, acronyms, and names of related associations.

www.huduser.org - U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development, Office of Policy Development and Research. Information source for federal government reports and information on housing policy and programs, building technology, economic development, urban planning, and other housing-related topics.

www.wheda.com - Wisconsin Housing and Economic Development Authority.

Clippings:

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  • Housing - Home ownership: 331.838/Z
  • Housing - Government aid: 331.839/W7z (WI); 331.839/Z (U.S.)

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1. loreelu posted on Jan 8, 2010

happiness is a way of life not a destination.

 

Your brother was not evil and you nor anyone else will know what he suffered or felt. This being said try to forgive him and pray for him and his family. He may have suffered from some sort of mental illness that was not detected. Once you are able to forgive him you will be more compasionate and find more peace with in. Good luck and try to be a little bit lighter  and a little bit forgiving and love yourself a little bit more. 

 

PEACE

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